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My Life, My Thoughts..


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Wednesday, February 22, 2012 @ 1:34 PM
"All little girls deserve to be told they are pretty, even if they aren't."
-Marilyn Monroe

I remember throughout my coming 20 years of life, I have never really feel proud or confidence before. Because I grew up in an environment, which was filled with negative comments and pretty people around me. People would tell me: "Jo you'd become fatter than the last time i saw you." Though I did received some nice comments by my relative saying im getting prettier and prettier. But soon, I began to realised maybe because this is just another way of being nice by complimenting me.

To be honest, when my bf or my ex bf or whoever who said im pretty, I would really be doubting them.. Wondering if its the fact or just like what i said above. I get alot from people saying, Girls should really have confidence in themselves, cause that really makes them look prettier. Well, I did listened to them..

So like after my ex bf when I really move on, I know its time for me to pick up myself, have more confidence and do better without him. I once saw this quote on the internet saying: "The best revenge is to live better than before". And I really did, I managed to move on and be back that cheerful and positive Joanne. I never felt more than happy than before. Im glad that my past relationship made me even stronger, happier and more independent than before.

Slowly, I build up my confidence and began to ignore people who gave me negative remarks. Because I started to realised that this is me, people who mix with me wont mind my appearance. People who love me, will definitely love me for who I am. Though it will still make me feel down whenever I hear negative remarks, but I will just think it through and just start to ignore it. (:

One of the reasons why people give you negative remarks is because they're jealous of you. So instead of letting them crash you down, why not let them see you're even better than before and just thank them for that remark that they had given you. (:

Its true that I was a low self confidence girl before, however im different now.. I hope every girls out there will know that its not important how others look at you, but its how you look at yourself...

till then.. -JOSW


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